On Self...
- "If you admit your faults, then other people can't point them out at you."
- Kevin Rose, "The Tim Ferriss Show Episode 1: Kevin Rose"
- "I am not who you think I am. I am not who I think I am. I am who I think you think I am."
- Charles Horton Cooley
- "We don't even know what our desire is. We ask other people to tell us our desires."
- René Girard
- "There is nothing more important to true growth than realizing that you are not the voice of the mind —
you are the one who hears it."
- Michael A. Singer, "The Untethered Soul"
- "Behold yon miserable creature. That Point is a Being like ourselves, but confined to the
non-dimensional Gulf. He is himself his own World, his own Universe; of any other than
himself he can form no conception; he knows not Length, nor Breadth, nor Height, for
he has had no experience of them; he has no cognizance even of the number Two; nor has he
a thought of Plurality, for he is himself his One and All, being really Nothing. Yet mark
his perfect self-contentment, and hence learn this lesson, that to be self-contented is to
be vile and ignorant, and that to aspire is better than to be blindly and impotently happy."
- Edwin A. Abbott, "Flatland"
- "I've been thinking. Tomorrow it will be twenty-eight years to the day that I've been in the service.
Twenty-eight years in peace and war. I don't suppose I've been at home more than ten months in all that
time. Still, it's been a good life. I loved India. I wouldn't have had it any other way. But there are
times when suddenly you realize you're nearer the end than the beginning. And you wonder, you ask
yourself, what the sum total of your life represents. What difference your being there at any time made
to anything. Hardly made any difference at all, really, particularly in comparison with other men's
careers. I don't know whether that kind of thinking's very healthy; but I must admit I've had some
thoughts on those lines from time to time. But tonight... tonight!"
- Colonel Nicholsen, "The Bridge on the River Kwai"
- "Wheat stocks heaviest with grain bow the lowest."
- Japanese Proverb
- "So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past."
- F. Scott Fitzgerald, "The Great Gatsby"
On Others...
- "Empathy is not the truth — it's not the reality — it's the other side's point of view."
- Chris Voss, "MasterClass 0.3. Labeling"
- "Whenever you are observing an entity from the outside and they are apparently engaged in crazy or
irrational behavior, it's rarely because the entity is actually irrational. It's usually because you are
lacking some information about the internal mechanisms of what’s going on."
- Colin Gregory Palmer Grey,
"H.I. #15: Books Made of Paper"
- "... when you look directly at an insane man all you see is a reflection of your own knowledge that he’s
insane, which is not to see him at all."
- Robert M. Pirsig, "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance"
- "Those on the fringes are often the harbingers of what is to come."
- Jamie Bartlett, https://youtu.be/pzN4WGPC4kc?t=10m17s
- "A new scientific truth does not triumph by convincing its opponents and making them see the light, but
rather because its opponents eventually die and a new generation grows up that is familiar with it... An
important scientific innovation rarely makes its way by gradually winning over and converting its
opponents: it rarely happens that Saul becomes Paul. What does happen is that its opponents gradually
die out, and that the growing generation is familiarized with the ideas from the beginning."
- Max Planck, "Scientific Autobiography and Other Papers", p. 33
- "If people are saying bad things about you, you don't have to defend it. Because your friends will know
it's not true, and the people that don't like you, they're not going to believe it when you do defend
yourself anyway, so just don't engage."
- Destin Sandlin, "No Dumb Questions Episode 7: 007
- Body Slamming People on Airplanes"
- "As long as some minds remain a mystery, so too will all minds."
- Michael Stevens, "Divergent Minds - Mind Field S2 (Ep 7)"
- "If there's one person around you who makes you feel defensive, you lose the confidence to play and it's
good-bye creativity. So always make sure your play friends are people you like and trust. And never say
anything to squash them either. Never say 'no' they're wrong or 'I don't like that'. Always be positive
and build on what's been said."
- John Cleese, https://youtu.be/5xPvvPTQaMI
- "Be an improviser and change the world: make a connection, listen, say 'yes, and...', be in the moment,
stay flexible, avoid preconceived ideas, respect other people's choices, listen to your inner voice, and
follow your intuition."
- Jennifer Hunter, "Improv comedy will change the world |
Jennifer Hunter | TEDxLSSU"
On Knowledge and Philosophy...
- "You must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool."
- Richard Feynman, "Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!", p. 343
- "It's very hard to believe that your intuition is wrong."
- Dan Ariely, "Dan Ariely: Our buggy moral code"
- "The philosopher's school, ye men, is a surgery: you ought not to go out of it with pleasure, but with
pain. For you are not in sound health when you enter."
- Epictetus, "The Discourses"
- "When we don't know how the things are working, we call it magic... once we know how it is working, it
becomes a technique."
- Abdul Bari, "8. NP-Hard and NP-Complete
Problems"
- "I do not refuse my dinner simply because I do not understand the process of digestion."
- Oliver Heaviside
- "I guess when someone's wrong, they never they never know how."
- Michael Burry, "The Big Short"
- "The art of doing mathematics consists in finding that special case which contains all the germs of
generality."
- David Hilbert
- "In math, you should always be happy to play with examples that are idealized, potentially well beyond
the point of being realistic, because they can offer a good first step in the direction of something
more general, and hence, more realistic."
- Grant Sanderson, "Solving the heat equation |
Differential equations, chapter 3"
- "Confirmation bias is when your brain ignores evidence that doesn't support your beliefs, and then it
cherry picks the evidence that does... If you assume good intentions on the part of your friends and
family, and you tell yourself you're lucky to have them... Studies have shown that the best predictor of
divorce is if the couple assumes bad intentions in their partner's actions... if you get it in your head
that your partner is selfish or inconsiderate or willfully refusing to take out the garbage, that
creates a negative feedback loop of confirmation bias, seeking to find further evidence that your spouse
is a jerk, even when good faith efforts are being made."
- Mark Rober, "I Gave the MIT Commencement
Speech"
- "He told me to close my eyes and find a plane based on how it feels. He asked me to make a slight right
turn while keeping my eyes closed. I did so, and after the turn I thought I was flying level, but I had
inadvertently tipped the plane into a graveyard spiral... How you feel is not necessarily how it is. In
fact, going by feel without having an idea of where you are in the scheme of things will often get you
into very big trouble in life as well as in aviation."
- Craig Ferguson, "Riding The Elephant by Craig Ferguson", p. 180
- "...a very fundamental part of my soul is to doubt and to ask... I have approximate answers and possible
beliefs and different degrees of certainty about different things, but I'm not absolutely sure of
anything and there are many things I don't know anything about, such as whether it means anything to ask
why we're here... I don't have to know an answer. I don't feel frightened not knowing things, by being
lost in a mysterious universe without any purpose, which is the way it really is as far as I can tell."
- Richard Feynman, "The Pleasure of Finding Things Out", p. 24
- "What you see and what you hear depends a great deal on where you are standing. It also depends on what
sort of person you are."
- C.S. Lewis, "The Magician’s Nephew"
- "No, not Northward; upward; out of Flatland altogether."
- Edwin A. Abbott, "Flatland"
- "What I cannot create, I do not understand."
- Richard Feynman
- "... there is one feature I notice that is generally missing in Cargo Cult Science. That is the idea
that we all hope you have learned in studying science in school—we never explicitly say what this is,
but just hope that you catch on by all the examples of scientific investigation. It is interesting,
therefore, to bring it out now and speak of it explicitly. It’s a kind of scientific integrity, a
principle of scientific thought that corresponds to a kind of utter honesty—a kind of leaning over
backwards. For example, if you’re doing an experiment, you should report everything that you think might
make it invalid—not only what you think is right about it: other causes that could possibly explain your
results; and things you thought of that you’ve eliminated by some other experiment, and how they
worked—to make sure the other fellow can tell they have been eliminated. Details that could throw doubt
on your interpretation must be given, if you know them. You must do the best you can—if you know
anything at all wrong, or possibly wrong—to explain it."
- Richard Feynman, "Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman"
- "...that part of formal scientific method called experimentation, is sometimes thought of by romantics
as all of science itself because that’s the only part with much visual surface. They do not see the
experiment as part of a larger intellectual process and so they often confuse experiments with
demonstrations, which look the same. A man conducting a gee-whiz science show with fifty thousand
dollars’ worth of Frankenstein equipment is not doing anything scientific if he knows beforehand what
the results of his efforts are going to be."
- Robert M. Pirsig, "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance"
- "In addition to the uncertainties that we must deal with in astronomy as a consequence of the limited
accuracy of our equipment, and also to limits in available observation time, there are the astronomers'
nightmares: the 'unknown-hidden' uncertainties. Is there perhaps an error you are making that you don't
even know about because you're missing something, or because your instruments are calibrated
incorrectly?... We call that a systematic error, and it scares the hell out of us."
- Walter Lewin, "For the Love of Physics"
- "There is a hole at the bottom of math. A hole that means we will never know everything with certainty.
There will always be true statements that cannot be proven."
- Derek Muller, "Math's
Fundamental Flaw"
- "We must know. We will know."
- David Hilbert
- "Naive you are
if you believe
life favours those
who aren't naive."
- Piet Hein
- "You are never dedicated to something you have complete confidence in. No one is fanatically shouting
that the sun is going to rise tomorrow. They know it’s going to rise tomorrow. When people are
fanatically dedicated to political or religious faiths or any other kinds of dogmas or goals, it’s
always because these dogmas or goals are in doubt."
- Robert M. Pirsig, "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance"
- "The apparent collapse of the wavefunction is indeed a profound mystery — should we then be surprised
that one response is to build invisible universes to compensate?...
These makeshift repairs and
inventions are needed if science is not to be derailed or demoralized by its lacunae... These might turn
out to be entirely the wrong concepts, but they make our ignorance concrete and enable us to think about
how to explore it."
- Philip Ball,
"Why Physicists Make Up Stories in the Dark"
- "The best story always wins."
- Morgan Housel,
https://youtu.be/LcCtv9UkILI?t=3030
Interdisciplinary
- "The trouble with computers is that you 'play' with them!"
- Richard Feynman, "Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!"
- "I considered law and math. My Dad was a lawyer. I think though I would have ended up in physics if I
didn't end up in computer science."
- Bill Gates,
Reddit
AMA
- "If I were not a physicist, I would probably be a musician."
- Albert Einstein
On Art...
- "Words make you think a thought. Music makes you feel a feeling. A song makes you feel a thought."
- Yip Harburg
- "Not a word out of place, not a word too many, not a word too few. Just enough."
- Graham Nash,
"The Gift: The Journey of Johnny Cash
(Official Documentary)"
- "There is
one art,
no more,
no less:
to do
all things
with art -
lessness."
- Piet Hein
- "If you copy from one author, it's plagiarism. If you copy from two, it's research."
- Wilson Mizner
- "The company that tries to make a product that everybody will like usually ends up making a product that nobody likes."
- Mark Manson,
"https://youtu.be/z2RtZdzcpNI?t=1429"
On Failure...
- "Whenever I say something stupid, it's because I thought of the smart thing first."
- Shayne Topp,
https://youtu.be/M9Whh0dK6Fg?t=353
- "Even if there's a little bit of fire, it's not a big deal. This is exactly what we try to do. We learn
from everything..."
SpaceX host,
https://youtu.be/ivdKRJzl6y0?t=1766
- "Scientific questions often have a surface appearance of dumbness... They are asked in order to prevent
dumb mistakes later on."
- Robert M. Pirsig, "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance"
- "At this point, I'm looking at this and thinking 'is this even going to end up being a thing that I
love? Am I doing this right? Am I doing something centrally wrong? And that just makes this par for the
course for any build.'"
- Adam Savage,
https://youtu.be/q_YZX1SgZ5Y?t=454
- "You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to
forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your
time, or any of your space."
- Johnny Cash
- "Theory often makes it sound as if the various moves being discussed are either 100 percent effective or
not at all. Reality is almost always somewhere in between. So do the best you can with your strategic
thinking, but don't be surprised if something unexpected an 'unknown unknown,' as a former Defense
Secretary Donald Rumsfeld would say nullifies your efforts."
- Avinash K. Dixit, "The Art of Strategy"
On Productivity...
- "He that lets
the small things bind him
leaves the great
undone behind him."
- Piet Hein
- "Never be so sure of what you want that you wouldn't take something better"
- Chris Voss,
"Never Split the Difference | Chris Voss | Talks at Google"
- "...there is no difference between inspiration and lack of distraction. They are the same thing."
- Mark Manson,
https://markmanson.net/boring-ways-to-become-more-creative
- "I can distribute material of bad-to-mediocre quality to a small number of people, or I can distribute
material of higher quality to more people. But I can’t do both; the first one obliterates the second...
I am faced with a stark choice between being a bad correspondent and being a good novelist. I am trying
to be a good novelist, and hoping that people will forgive me for being a bad correspondent."
- Neal Stephenson,
https://www.nealstephenson.com/why-i-am-a-bad-correspondent.html
- "The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities."
- Steven Covey, "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"
- "Surprisingly, sometimes giving up on doing things in the perfect order may be the key to getting them
done."
- Brian Christian,
"How to manage your time more
effectively (according to machines)"
- "You get more prestige by doing good science than by doing popular science"
- Donald Knuth,
"Donald Knuth - My advice to young people
(93/97)"
- Brady Haran: "Did you think it would be finished by now?"
Donald Knuth: "Yes, I thought it would be finished by the time my son was born."
Brady Haran: "How old is your son now?"
Donald Knuth: "55"
"A Very Bad Estimator (with Donald Knuth) -
Numberphile Podcast"
- "I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by."
- Douglas Adams, "The Salmon of Doubt: Hitchhiking the Galaxy One Last Time"
- "Deadlines are good... If you're going to have a massive engineering program, you have to have a
schedule, because schedule helps you mitigate different things. Like, for example, as an engineer, I can
keep working on something forever until it's absolutely perfect, but at some point in time, you have to
get it good enough, and unless you have a schedule to motivate you to shed all of your uncertainties,
you're never going to think it's good enough."
- Destin Sandlin,
"Was the Apollo Program a Bad Idea? | A
SciSchow Documentary"
- "Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion."
- C. Northcote Parkinson, "Parkinson's Law"
- "It always takes longer than you expect, even when you take into account Hofstadter's Law."
- Douglas Hofstadter, "Hofstadter's Law"
- "As I've told you before, in a job like yours, even when it's finished, there's always one more thing to
do."
- Colonel Green, "The Bridge on the River Kwai"
On Now...
- "As eternity
is reckoned
there's a lifetime
in a second."
- Piet Hein
- "In this moment, there is just this. Anything else is just an idea."
- Andy Puddicombe
- "Nothing in life is as important as you think it is, while you are thinking about it."
- Daniel Kahneman,
https://www.edge.org/response-detail/11984
- "All the time we are aware of millions of things around us... aware of these things but not really
conscious of them unless there is something unusual or unless they reflect something we are predisposed
to see. We could not possibly be conscious of these things and remember all of them because our mind
would be so full of useless details we would be unable to think."
- Robert M. Pirsig, "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance"
- "If you're on the right path, it doesn't matter if you don't reach your destination because you were
already living it."
- Bruce Achterberg,
Quora Discussion
On Emotions...
- "All emotions are fleeting."
- Mattieu Ricard,
"The habits of happiness"
- "To weep is to make less the depth of grief."
- William Shakespeare, "King Henry VI, Part 3"
- "We tend to believe that massive outcomes must have massive causes..."
- Peter Hayes,
Why Did the Holocaust Happen?
- "The Gods only condemned Sisyphus to push the boulder… they didn’t condemn him to resent the process."
- Stephen West,
"Philosophize This!:
Ep. 87"
Satire
- "Can you hear that? That is the majestic hush of a paradigm shift."
- Homestar Runner, "Marzipan's Answering Machine #17"
- "Experience is what you get right after you need it."
- Unknown
- "Eye of newt and wing of flea, what is next year's GDP?"
- Zach Weiner
Misc
- "Your bad habits can kill you. But your good habits won't save you."
- Fran Lebowitz, "Pretend It's a City, S1:E5"
- "I believe that you don't truly own anything until you have voided its warranty."
- Matt Parker,
"De-beep Your Appliances: removing a
piezo buzzer from a kettle"
- "Calculus is the mathematics of change."
- Steven Strogatz,
"The Numberphile Podcast: The C-Word
(talking Calculus with Steven Strogatz)"
- "The luxury of having money isn't being able to indulge in luxuries, it's being able to not worry about
money."
- Hank Green,
"6 Awkward Money Questions With Hank
Green | The Financial Diet"
- "I am, and ever will be, a white-socks, pocket-protector, nerdy engineer — born under the second law of
thermodynamics, steeped in the steam tables, in love with free-body diagrams, transformed by Laplace,
and propelled by compressible flow."
- Neil Armstrong,
Neil Armstrong on Being a Nerd